January 25, 2010

It has been three days since my daughter’s last bowel movement. The last day that she did poop, I was told that it was the size of a quarter and solid like a pebble. So for the past three days, I’ve been giving her diluted prune juice hoping for some regularity. But there was no progress.

Last night, she couldn’t sleep because she was so uncomfortable. Every time she tried to move her bowels, it would be too difficult to come out. This morning, I tried giving her a warm bath with a massage to relax her muscles. But there was still no progress. (I was trying soooo hard to stay away from the karosyrup.) I know that it could possibly harm her gastric system. I know that it is a remedy that works for many babies in many generations. But guess what, so does cereal for a fussy, sleepless baby and look where that got me. A constipated baby.

While I was changing her after her warm bath, I noticed blood seeping around her rectum and then….! The poop was coming but it got stuck. I felt it and it was hard as a rock. It looked as if she was giving birth and about to tear her rectum. Awwww! I felt helpless. Her dad and I tried to break up the poop with a lubricated thermometer so that it would be easier to pass thru. Still wasn’t coming!

So he tried to squirt water up there so it could break it up. And guess what? It was working. I even got splashed in the face with poopy water. Lol. By then my mother came with the glycerin suppository and after three full diapers and a handful of baby tears she was feeling much better. Even with a sore hiney, she still smiled. I’m sure she felt ten pounds lighter.

Now she is sleeping peacefully.

Losing Big January 20, 2010

I’m sure the majority of us are starting our weightloss resolution. New gym memberships, new workout sneakers, new health foods, and a new attitude. But as many times as we start our weightloss resolution, we tend to stray back to our old habits. We are eating junk food,being a coach potato, andwasting gym memberships. Why? Why do we get discouraged? Why can’t we stay disciplined to care for our bodies the right way? Why do we treat our bodies so bad? This is crazy.

My sister was asked to organize a weightloss contest for the hospital. Her being a true health and fitness fan, she greatly took on the task. On top of that she is promoting health and wellness like it is a #1 priority. When we have full-time jobs, we all tend to put way too much time in the job and tear away from healthy choices. If it isn’t convenient then it isn’t on our minds. But yet we are the ones packing on the pounds.

We must realize that it is a chosen lifestyle and we have t take responsibility. I want my body back. How about you?

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Wearing Thin January 20, 2010

This weekend I had to work so my sisters and my father babysitted for me. Day 1 with my sisters went pretty well. My twin sis picked the kids up when she dropped off her daughter at daycare. My younger sister gave her a helping hand from time to time. They told me that the twins were a little fussy. But they handled it well.

Day 2, the first half of the day, my father had the twins along with caring for my grandmother who needs care. I ended up staying the over with the twins the night prior so I wouldn’t inconvenience others too early in the morning. So from 7am to 2pm was my dad’s shift with the help of my younger sister until 11am. Why did my dad call me at 12pm ready to pull his hair out?! He was stressing somethin’ serious. Lol. Poor dad.

My twins father had his sister come get them for the 2nd half of the day. What am I gonna do if I wear out my help too soon. I’m trying to search for a well-recommended lady to care for my twins while I work on preparing for their college funds. You know its going to be like a half of a million dollars for tuition around the time they go to college. And I have two! I’m sure my mother was estatic when my sister and I got scholarships. I know I was relieved.

Well, I guess I have to stay positive in this search of a great sitter.

The Split Up January 20, 2010

Why is it so hard to get someone to babysit twins? Yes, I know it may seem a bit much. But guess what? Its just for a few hours as oppose to a lifetime. If I ask for the help, I need you to realize I really need it. I’m not the type of person that would take advantage of your kind ness. Because I know that it is a lot. Hey its two babies. To make matters worse, my son is much more fussier. If he isn’t sleep or eating, then you only have about a good 20 minutes of bliss. After that the irritation, fussiness, and crying starts until you put him back to sleep or walk around holding him until he falls asleep. Lol. Their father has a system for our son. He positions him in the boucer as if he was lying on your chest. That is by far the best way to get him to sleep. After about 15 mins we would move him to the crib.
Well I have come to the conclusion that I am not splitting up my twins for babysitting purposes. If you can’t take both then I don’t need you.

A NEW YEAR… January 4, 2010

The year 2009 has came and went. Now, tis 2010, a new year is here and we all have our resolution’s list. I’m sure weightloss is on the top of the list along with financial security and “me time”. At least that’s what’s on my list. I have gained 12lbs over the past few weeks. I know it was from eating those holiday cookies, soul food, and icecream for breakfast. Lol. I was just catching up on missed foods.

I was so pleased in the way I brung in the new year. My family and I went to church and celebrated the last of 2009 and the start of 2010 with the Lord. My beau’s sisters came to church with us along with my mother, younger sis and niece. It was beautiful and I felt so grateful to have endured the blessings from God with them. Family.

Back to work for a while until I figure out my next move in life. I feel somewhat disappointed in myself for returning to work with the same work status from the time I left. No progression. I have a bachelor’s degree which is more than many people that I work with and I have great work ethic. But yet I am working under my level. WHY???? This to me is so disappointing. I wish I had the guts to start my dream gym last year when I thought about it. Now, this year I am making it a high priority to start my business. At least get it off the ground. I have to “do me” because everyone else is doing them.

2010 is the year of GREAT EXPECTATION….let’s exceed abundantly!!!

PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION….Which one are you? December 17, 2009

Which one are you? Are you the old lady with multiple bags riding quietly as if she were invisible? Are you the old men chit chatting about any and everything as if they were friends socializing on their front porch? Are you the mother trying to control your child while he is unsafely moving up and down the aisles? Or the mommy trying to console your child while she is crying hysterically? Or are you the crack head that is about to miss his stop because he can’t stay awake to push the button? Are you the young lady just coming from nursing school that’s on her way to her evening job? Oh or are you the middle aged construction worker who just got off of work looking exhausted from trying to make ends meet?

All different avenues of life but on the same bus going to different destinations.

BACK 2 THE WORKING WORLD December 17, 2009

The twins are almost 8 weeks now. Two months already! Where did the time go? They make my heart melt each time I see them, hear them or think about them.

This week I had returned back to work. I haven’t returned full-time yet. I’m just adding a few days here and there with no strings attached. It actually feels nice interacting with friends and co-workers outside of the baby world. Its a mini break from mommy duty. It was pure excitement to see everyone. Of course, they asked for pictures and wanted an update on the twins. The first they asked was “who’s watching the twins?”. I proudly say “their daddy”. He was on full daddy duty for four days straight. He did great too. If only I could come home with dinner already on the table. I guess that’s not in the cards yet.

Everyone thought that he would be running out as soon as I got home and guess what…. He didn’t. He enjoyed every minute of them. So sweet!

Why Won’t You Burp… December 8, 2009

3am feedings are still a killer for me. No matter how much rest a may get during the day or evening to prepare for the late night and early morning feedings, I still dread them. It seems like I need to rest between 8:30pm-11:00pm to start the night shift. If I don’t get that nap then I am NO good. But, even still if I could chose not to feed at 3am or 4am then it would definitely be off the list. When my other half is here to help with those feedings, it cuts the time down where it would allow me a little more rest over the night. When he has to work and unable to help me, it really wears me down because I’m at it alone. As soon as I finish feeding, burping, changing and putting them back to sleep, it feels like its time for the next round. Especially if its difficult to put them back to sleep…. If one makes noise, then the other is up again.

Lately, it has been difficult to burp them. It used to take less than 15 minutes. Now, it’s been taking more than a half hour which puts a damper on the time schedule. If we put them down without burping, then they would wake up within the next half hour crying and fussy.

I guess we have to bite the bullet. Oh yes, someone told us to start feeding them cereal at 6 weeks. That lady’s babies were huge. I don’t want overweight babies. I think their size is right on track. Yes, I know that it could cut down on feedings but I don’t want to rush their digestive system. That could lead to childhood obesity. We will not end up on the Maury show! With that being said, when is a good time to actually start our babies on cereal?

THE WEEKEND… December 6, 2009

This Sunday was the babies first time at church. I did not realize how many family and friends we had at that church. It was like a show and tell with the twins. Everyone made their way to see them. So much excitement in the air and it wasn’t just from the great sermon. Sadly, I wasn’t able to actually pay attention to the sermon which was a little disappointing. The pastor was speaking about the light in a dark tunnel and having hope while in despair. Everytime I got into the word Q would demand my attention. My sister took him out the sanctuary to feed him. He was doing so good in the beginning. Lol.

Last night, my mom offered to take them so I could get a full night’s rest. I didn’t hesistate to say yes. The sleepless nights started to wear me down and I needed to get a break. Thank you Lord. He heard my cry. I’m always saying I can do this, I’m ok, I can handle it. But in reality, I am not superwoman. I can’t do everything and I need to ask for help when I can.

My parents were sooooo tired this morning after staying up until 11pm and getting up at 2am and 5am for the twins feedings. We were late to church. Lol. Modt importantly, I did get a full night’s rest.

BABIES DAY OUT December 4, 2009

WOW! No more running to the store for a few things. When I have to go out, it must be a list of things to get and at least a few places to go. Shoot. It is a lot of work. Of course, I can’t do it by myself especially while I’m still recovering from the delivery. I remember when I was in college, my friend would take forever getting ready and she was ALWAYS late. She said, “there’s no such thing as being on time” and with a baby…babies, she is definitely correct. So far, I have been doing good with timing though. I would get them ready at least an hour before we have to leave so I can be prepared for unexpected diaper changes and late feedings.

That stroller is no joke. It weighs like 50lbs. I have to be extra careful while in the stores so that I don’t accidently hit someone. My mom and sister went with me to go to the mall the other day. If I didn’t have them with me, then I would not have gone. One needed to be changed while the other desperately wanted to eat again. Then the other wanted to eat while the other needed to be burped. It was back and forth. It is truly a workout. Real sweat and shortness of breath!

We had went to the one store to look for baby outfits and my mom went inside the dressing room to feed them. My sister went to help her because she was a little overwhelmed. Lol. I am so grateful for them. I was able to shop while they cared for my babies.